How to Be Happy Working
Scenario: "Dude, we just need to generate lots of Benjamins. Then we'll buy Bimmers! High-five!" To be super happy, people think it takes:
- making lots of money
- getting all-star promotions
- getting lots of rewards
- achieving lots of recognition
But if you recount your past, and ask yourself:
"What really made me happy working?"
It was probably this: Progress. That is, you plowed your way through some freakish barrier -- then, subconsciously thought afterward: "Oh shizzle! I'm further down the road now than where I was yesterday! Yay!" The happiness juices in your ridiculously awesome brain started flowing. You became one happy dude/tte.
Progress Breeds Happiness
Harvard's Teresa Amabile and Researcher Steven Kramer studied how people became most happy at their work
:
We found that the single most important differentiator was a sense of being able to make progress in their work. Achieving a goal, accomplishing a task, or solving a problem often evoked great pleasure and sometimes elation. Even making good progress toward such goals could elicit the same reactions. Even very mundane successes led to positive feelings.
If you're running your business (i.e. have no one to set your tasks), do it this way:
- Think of your ultimate destination (e.g. your 20-year goal).
- Then, start itching away at it.
If progress makes you happy...
What Makes You Unhappy?
One word: Stagnation. Setbacks that impede your progress destroy your morale. If you feel that you're going nowhere, the anxieties start creeping. According to the researchers:
The worst days - the most frustrating, sad, and fearful days - were characterized by setbacks in the work. Again, the magnitude of the event is not important: Even seemingly small setbacks had a substantial impact on inner work life.
The minute you feel pushed back, immediately do this:
Do something -- anything! -- that reverses that setback, and keeps you moving forward. For instance: if some angry customer sends you a crazy complaint, take one easy step that reverses that stagnation: Acknowledge it. Rule of thumb: As long as you're moving forward, you'll set your booty up for some happiness.
"So how can my butt seek super happiness today?!"
Three steps to follow:
- Think of the biggest problem you that you can defeat in a minute/hour/half-day/full-day.
- Tackle the problem like the !@#$ that it is.
- Notice how freakishly happy your booty becomes driving home.
High-!@#$%^-five to you. Get some progress; be happy.
Seek progress.
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5 Comments
on How to Be Happy Working
anon
2007-04-25 04:08:55 UTC
i guess another sweet rule of thumb to be happy is:
just keep moving forward :)
Dave Navarro
2007-04-25 07:26:40 UTC
You guys reminded me of something - in the Marcus Buckingham/Curt Coffman's data-driven no-BS book, "First, Break All the Rules," they talk about the 12 statistically provable things that drives employees to kick-ass for their managers.
One of the questions that a superstar always answers yes to is: "At work, do I have the opportunity to do what I do best everyday?"
If you're starving for some progress, make it in the area that's "what you do best" and you'll be doubly pumped.
- Dave Navarro
Bootstrapping Blog
2007-04-25 09:29:56 UTC
This is so true. Even in working out / dieting, ect. Anything in life really. Great post
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2007-04-26 01:30:47 UTC
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2007-12-10 04:22:40 UTC
[...] The dudes at Trizle wrote about it, and I think they’re right. In order to ‘get my butt super happy today’, I have to get on with my thesis and make some progress! Just read the post at Trizle, and make this day a !@#$%^ happy one! [...]
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